My background
My path to becoming a therapist was not planned; I was led to it. Born from a lifelong passion of bearing witness to the stories and struggles of others and helping people navigate challenges and unlock transformative growth, this is my calling. Through my own journey of self-discovery and healing, I've learned the liberating power of breaking free from the shackles of trauma and pain while also uncovering and embracing my worthiness. My mission is to empower others to mend the wounds of their past, find peace, and embrace themselves and others with compassion and acceptance.
​With roots in Belgium and Italy, I came to the US when I was five years old. Since then, I’ve had the privilege of exploring diverse cultures and embracing new experiences, living in various parts of the US and abroad. Raleigh, NC is now my home.
After graduating with a Bachelor of Science in Mathematics from NC State University in 1991, I served six years on active duty as an officer in the United States Air Force, and in 1998 I dedicated myself to raising three children. Eight years later, I decided to pursue my Masters in Counseling and graduated from NC State in 2009. Married for over 30 years with three adult children now (and a dog), I am a firm believer in the strong role connected relationships play in personal fulfillment. I am especially attuned to the complex challenges of daily life and how easy it is to fall into self-limiting, conditioned responses. And I have witnessed the power of self-awareness and compassionate support as a path to healing. Now, I’m dedicated to helping others cultivate resilience and thrive.
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I’ve had the privilege of supporting individuals in their journey towards healing and restoration, addressing a wide range of challenges, including:
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Emotional / physical abuse
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Sexual abuse / incest
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Attachment difficulties
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Relationship issues
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Self-esteem
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Anxiety & depression
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Grief & loss
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Life transitions / adjustments
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Parenting support
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Through empathetic and empowering guidance, I help clients break free from limitations and unlock their full potential. In our sessions, you will discover (or rediscover) your inherent strengths that make you uniquely you. The events that shaped you can't be altered, but we can shift the story you tell yourself about your experiences. By helping you release the emotional weight holding you back, I can help you transform the impact of your past. Together, we can reframe your experiences and elevate you to move forward with greater freedom, resilience, and hope.
Lida Lisowe, LCMHC
Certified EMDR Therapist working with complex trauma in the Raleigh area
My approach
I am a Certified EMDR therapist, and utilize EMDR Therapy as my primary treatment modality. In addition to my professional trainings in a variety of treatment approaches, I have completed advanced trainings in complex trauma from The Center for Excellence in EMDR Therapy. As a result, I incorporate a range of therapeutic techniques, seamlessly weaving them into EMDR therapy as needed, to create a personalized and effective treatment plan. This integrative approach allows me to tailor therapy to each individual’s unique needs and circumstances in order to foster deeper healing and lasting transformation.
Some of the techniques I draw from include:
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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
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Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
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Mindfulness-based therapies
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Somatic Experiencing (SE)
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Internal Family Systems (IFS)
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PolyVagal Theory (PVT)
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My mission is to guide you toward profound and lasting change by identifying your areas for growth and transformation, developing strategies for positive change and unlocking your full potential.
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Together, we will create a customized path to unlock your best self.
trainings and certifications
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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
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Trauma-Focused CBT
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Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
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Mindfulness-based practices
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Somatic-based practices
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Certified in EMDR since August 2022
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Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC, NC # 8452) since May 2014
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National Certified Counselor (NCC # 252090) since Sep 2009
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M. Ed. in Counselor Education, North Carolina State University, 2009